Our time finally came at 6 months of age.  We started to give her small amounts of rice cereal each day to get her use to the idea of eating.  Baby was not a fan.  The more cereal I placed in her mouth the more cereal squirted out.  Another opportunity to feel like a failure.  "Why is my baby not eating right away"?  Like everything else in motherhood feeding a baby sounds easy but it's not.  I heard Oatmeal might receive a better response, and it did.  Once she got use to a spoon being placed in front of her mouth, took the mushy stuff in, and stopped sucking it like a bottle we were good.  I recently introduced Baby Mum's to her.  Some non-colored rice board looking thing.  Baby not a fan.  If it were bright colored, made a sound, and not edible I'm sure she would have tried to eat it.  Babies are strange sometimes. 
Our little lady is now taking in three meals a day along with her formula.  But for some reason I feel like I'm still doing something wrong or not giving her enough.   I only give her the same 3 veggie options and two types of fruit.  I don't make my own baby food. (Goodness, I hardly make my own food).  I have not studied up on baby diets.  I don't know the latest baby food fad. I don't understand when to give them snacks or juice. However, I'm sure all the answers can be found in some book.  Like everything else, I have to make time to read.  That is what Goggle, the Gerber site, and questions for my sister are for...help.
 Look the way I see it is, I will eventually get this figured out but it's going to take some time.  As long as my baby is patient with me I will be patient with her.  She's still growing & healthy. Thats all that matters, right?  How can I force feed my own child when my own relationship with food is a rocky one.  I eat to live not live to eat.  My baby eats when hungry and to stop fussing when I'm trying to shop. (just kidding).   Easy enough
